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STATEMENT OF MAYOR CHARLIE CARLEY ON THE PASSING OF BUDDY THOMAS
SOUTH BRUNSWICK, N.J. (Sept. 17)— We learned today that Buddy Thomas has passed away. He was 88. South Brunswick has lost a Marine, a husband, a father and a friend, and our hearts are with his family.
I have directed that flags at all municipal buildings fly at half-staff in his memory through the next week.
Buddy was born in Charleston, West Virginia, in 1938, in the very hard years of the Great Depression. He joined the Marines in 1959 and served with the 1st Battalion, 9th Marines. Marines called that battalion “The Walking Dead” for the men it lost in Vietnam. At Da Nang, Buddy took a bullet to the abdomen. He earned the Purple Heart and came home a sergeant in 1965.
He made his home here, among us, and he met Christine. They were married 56 years. Few of us will be so lucky.
South Brunswick is Christine’s town. She worked for more than 25 years as a paraprofessional in our schools, and a generation of our children knew her. I knew her for the joy she brought each morning when I walked my own children to Brunswick Acres School. I was, of course, much younger then and in memory, every day the sun shone, and Mrs. Thomas had a smile and a hug. In their way, a real way, she and Buddy taught me and my wife to love this town.
They worshiped at St. Cecilia’s. Anyone who knew them will tell you the same thing: they met you with a hug and a smile, and you left feeling better than when you came.
Buddy and Christine raised three children in this town: Joseph, Constance and Michael. Joseph followed his father into the Marines. Buddy and Christine lost Joseph and Constance before their time.
Christine passed in 2022. Buddy, a Marine after all, carried his grief and kept serving. He worked the Marine Toys for Tots drive each holiday season. He fought to raise the POW/MIA flag at every public school and township building, and it flies there today. It flies at the schools where Christine worked.
In 2019 our town named Buddy a South Brunswick Living Local Legend. On Veterans Day 2024 we put his name on the street sign at Hillside Avenue and New Road in Monmouth Junction. That sign will stand long after all of us. Everyone who stops at that corner will read the name of a man who gave his country his blood and gave this town the work of his life.
Buddy is with Christine, Constance and Joseph again. To his son Michael and daughter-in-law Natalie, his granddaughters Constance and Kandace, his great-grandson Ryder and all who loved him: South Brunswick remembers, and we will not forget him.
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